For Clients
Relationship abuse and substance use can be linked in different ways. If you notice any of the patterns below in your own life, please know there are ways to get support and help.
Both intoxication and withdrawal (e.g., hangovers) from substances can increase the likelihood that abuse will occur. Substances can disinhibit people and may be associated with acting more aggressively.
Substances can be used to self-medicate the emotional and physical pain of being in an abusive relationship. However, they can also make it harder to assess relationship safety or follow a safety plan.
Some partners use coercion or threats to get their partner to use substances, with or without them. In certain situations — like the threat of physical or sexual abuse if a person refuses — it may be safer in the short-term to use the substance. Some partners may also threaten their partner for seeking help or treatment.
Some partners intentionally withhold substances as a form of control or abuse — for example, forcing a person to go through withdrawal.
Some partners coerce or force their partner into certain actions, such as sex with other people, in order to get money or substances (i.e., human trafficking).
If you are experiencing any of these patterns with your partner, please know you are not alone.
Talk to your provider or reach out to the resources below.
If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, call 911.